Proof your Asawa loves you

[dylanaz]

So... heres my PROOF!

I got sick... from eating something... so im in bed...

Cant fall asleep
In pain
Starving
Cant eat...

and after a few hours managed to fall alseep... now... I can FINALLY REST and hopefully wake up better...  after spending HOURS trying to fall asleep with a fever...

So... im asleep right... ya...

So my Asawa proves she loves me - by waking me up TO ASK IF IM FEELING OK !!!>>>

WTH WTH WTH OMG!! I was in PEACE.. RESTING !!! Now I must spend hours in pain again TRYING to fall back to sleep ! 

I thought that was sooo funny.. I couldnt laugh at the time because it would have induced projectile vomiting... but sooo funny to think about a day later

And she finally understands me .. I think... because I overheard her on the phone talking to her mom...

"I think my husband is feeling better now because hes cursing, and he only curses when hes happy"
hahah...

[Gray Wolf]

Bwahahahahahahaaaa!!  Funny!   

[c_a_p_t_a_i_n_r_o_n]

That's the first time that's happened to you?

More to come! hehehe

[tom.inbigdtexas]

I got sick... from eating something...

and after a few hours managed to fall alseep...

So my Asawa proves she loves me - by waking me up TO ASK IF IM FEELING OK !!!>>>

Dylanaz,

My asawa must really love me... she not only wakes me up, but also asks me if I want something to EAT

Tom in Big D

[boomerang]

I got sick... from eating something...

and after a few hours managed to fall alseep...

So my Asawa proves she loves me - by waking me up TO ASK IF IM FEELING OK !!!>>>

Dylanaz,

My asawa must really love me... she not only wakes me up, but also asks me if I want something to EAT

Tom in Big D

That seems to be in their genes. I experience the same, but often shows a "knock on the door" to more adult food 

[jonnyivy]

Mines is more simple than that,....just every night before I nod off to sleep, she will lean over and whisper in my ear," I love you",.. EVERY night without fail.
Can't be allowed to go to sleep until I return the compliment " love you too "

Now THATS love !!!

[dylanaz]

Mines is more simple than that,....just every night before I nod off to sleep, she will lean over and whisper in my ear," I love you",.. EVERY night without fail.
Can't be allowed to go to sleep until I return the compliment " love you too "

Everyone here likes to use shortcuts... especially when they are TXTing with their mobiles... even names of streets/cities are shortcuts like

EDSA
GEN. SAN.
STA. MARIA

etc...

SO - maybe you too can use a shortcut every nite... When she whispers in your ear each nite "I love you" just point to a picture on the wall that says " MAHAL KITA" !

Save a few words 

[Mr. Lee]

My wife used to wake me up to make sure I was still alive but now that I probably snore so loud, no need. 

Anyway she shows me that she loves me by finding me wherever I am within the house and hugging me and kissing me all the time, and at night when we first go to sleep, she snuggles us so close that she is almost inside me and of course we always have to tell each other that we love each other at least twenty times a day. Affection with her is to the 20th power and it is love that I never felt from any other woman that I was ever with including my first wife of over 20 years together, and my many gf's before my first wife, and many in between her and the now and forever love of my life. This lady is definitely until death do us part.

[revaddict]

Wow.  I just wanted to jump in here and say I'm jealous, guys.

I'm going through a divorce right now from my wife of 16 years.  Less than a month to go until it's final and, as you might expect, I think I'm going to get screwed in the court system one way or the other.

My ultimate dream is to retire to the RP though and maybe find myself one of these great asawas I keep reading about.

So keep up the encouraging stories.  They assure me that maybe there's hope for me one day.

Paul

[G&A Rizzi]

My asawa must really love me... she not only wakes me up, but also asks me if I want something to EAT

There's a topic that could go a million different ways.  I have woke up a few times and found the Mrs. giving me a pedicure!!!!  When I ask if my toenails are too long, she says "No, I just want you to have nice feet."  Most of the time I wake up to a nice massage...and not just one or twice in my life...more like 2 or 3 times a week! 

Of course...like everyone else, "I love you!" flows off her tongue more times than I can count. The difference is....I know she means it!

Speaking of that...I'm late with an "I love you..." email.  She gets worried when I don't send them a couple of times a day!

[Mr. Lee]

Wow.  I just wanted to jump in here and say I'm jealous, guys.

I'm going through a divorce right now from my wife of 16 years.  Less than a month to go until it's final and, as you might expect, I think I'm going to get screwed in the court system one way or the other.

My ultimate dream is to retire to the RP though and maybe find myself one of these great asawas I keep reading about.

So keep up the encouraging stories.  They assure me that maybe there's hope for me one day.

Paul

Paul, just be aware that not all Filipinas make great wives, most will IMO but you will still have to get to know the one you wish to marry very well first and that does not necessarily mean including sexual things. I knew my wife 3 years before we (and I say we because it takes two to make a decision for life), decided to get married and I brought her to the US on a Fiancee visa. I can honestly say that she has not changed one bit other than her getting worldly with knowledge yet I know many who married ladies and brought them to the states and their marriage ended in divorce.

Proof my lady cared about me when we first met varied in examples but when I met her in the Philippines and as we walked around the streets of Cagayan de Oro, she kept a hankie to keep wiping the sweat from my forehead, she kept wanting to hold my hand and once we got to know each other well in person, she kept very close to me and rubbed my neck when it hurt and showed true concern for my health and well being. During our 3 years of writing and me calling her, she also always refused money from me because she was working and was proud to be able to take care of herself and when her father got sick in the last year plus, I sent her money in our weekly letters and she got mad at me for doing it but I kept doing it anyway and told her to use it for her fathers doctors and medicines, and then when I got to the Philippines she handed me a bank book and had put all the money back into it plus the dollars I sent her here and there for postage that she also got mad at me for sending because she was so darn proud, so she wanted to give it all back to me. BTW we are not talking big money here for her father but a $5, $10 or $20 here and there yet over the year it really added up and she meant what she had said, she did not want my money and to this day she is the same way and I have to force her to buy a lot of clothing or another pocketbook because she will try to use the same one day in and day out.

So what I am saying is, what a person is from the start is more or less what they will probably continue to be. If you get a spoiled lady then she will most likely only get worse with time.

[revaddict]

Thanks for the tips.

I wasn't even thinking about knowing a Filipina sexually before marriage.  (As a conservative Christian, I don't believe in that anyway.)  Just the way I hear you guys talking about all the "little" things your Filipinas do for you is enough to make me jealous.  You have been very blessed!  I'd bend over backwards and do a whole lot more for a woman who treated me the way yours treats you.

I haven't actually met a Filipina yet.  Like I said, I'm just finishing up a divorce.  And I've got a 10-year-old son who I think will be better off if I stay single until he's grown.  But after that, we'll see.  I hope to go to the RP, meet a suitable Filipina and stay there.

I'm sure you're right; they don't all make great wives.  But based on the culture of the RP vs. the culture of the US, it sounds like I've got a better chance there than here.

Enjoy and cherish those Filipinas, gentlemen.  I hope and pray that I get the chance to brag to you about mine someday.

Paul

[dylanaz]

she did not want my money and to this day she is the same way and I have to force her to buy a lot of clothing or another pocketbook because she will try to use the same one day in and day out.

Wow... rings many bells... it was TWICE my Asawa had those local purses that are barely worth the paper they are stuffed with. When they break she used safety pins or whatever to replace the missing jeweled studs to hold the handle on...

But I made it worse... by pulling out my toolbox and using very small rivets that matched the studs... 2 rivets for 1 peso.... now as long as I have rivets she will never accept a new purse ! 

[geno555]

Wow.  I just wanted to jump in here and say I'm jealous, guys.

I'm going through a divorce right now from my wife of 16 years.  Less than a month to go until it's final and, as you might expect, I think I'm going to get screwed in the court system one way or the other.

My ultimate dream is to retire to the RP though and maybe find myself one of these great asawas I keep reading about.

So keep up the encouraging stories.  They assure me that maybe there's hope for me one day.

Paul

Paul, welcome to the group, you find many friendly people on here who will go out of their way to try and answer your questions.

Sorry about the whole divorce thing, been there did that tied with "Billy" at four ... it wasn't just my time , not until I found the one I am proud to call my wife now. You have more than a better average I would say finding a loyal, loving, caring, compassionate , honest mate for life in the RP than any other place I have lived on planet earth.

My story kind of mirrors Mr. Lee's, in that we had a long courtship almost 4 years, during that time she was a school teacher in a rebel area way up in the Mountains a job most would never take. But she was the "leader" of the family after her father died, she neither speaks softly and does often carry a big switch, (in other words she is 112 lbs of pure heck on wheels)  but that is a trait I think you will find quite common amongst Filipino women.

The more news I would read about the raids and the number of dead in another gun battle I asked her to quit her job and I would replace her salary plus some for her personal needs for as it was she was only making the equivalent of 100 USA dollars a month and supported a large family of an average of 15 but I have seen it go as high as 30 at "hickup" time (eating time) just all depending on what nephews or nieces  had heard by text, believe me no one can text as fast as a Filipino or loves to eat as much .

She quit working, our love, trust , confidence was growing stronger every moment, and I felt like I was 16 again and a high school prom, butterflies in the stomach, not sleeping just thinking about her the whole "guess what your in love syndrome".

She would never buy anything personal for herself just gave the money to her mother who would give her some back for her travel fare back and forth to work which in itself was quite a trip for she drove as far as she could then when there were no more roads in the mountains she and 3 other teachers piled on a motorcycle and went the other 25 miles up the side of the mountain and if it rained, the road turned into a mudslide and the girls had to help him push the darn thing for miles. But such is the life and character of most Filipino people. The undeserved notion that they are lazy and drunks, just love cockfighting and playing cards, is based on the fact that in the provinces a lot of that does go on to there being no employment, so they make the best of each day as to whatever it may bring.

During that time I was sending her a monthly allowance and telling her to buy somethings for herself,for I knew how thrifty she was, I call it being "tight", but she has taught me more in 5 years about money than I knew in all my 62. She didn't like the idea of spending the money on herself but after a while she appeared to say once in awhile she took her mother to the movies in Butuan, was that OK for me.

Well that was a considerable amount of money sent in 4 years, (not a place to openly discuss finances on any open form so I will leave the  amount out) so after meeting her and her family at Manila with a large 6 foot banner that said "Welcome to the Philippines, Mr. Gene Murphy, love your Palanga (sp) means sweet little thing....and having a world wind next 14 days of a wedding a trip to Bohol and back ,the marriage suite at a local Manila hotel, I was pleasantly shocked one night when in bed she said she had something to show me.

Well from that moment on all though in my heart I knew it long before but that was the "binding cloth"...she produced a bank book in her name with every penny I had sent her plus 2,500 more, Yes I had told her to quit her job, but she found a Swiss couple who wanted their children to be privatley tutored in the local dialect and was working 3 hours a night 6 days a week at their house.

I was dumbfounded, couldn't have loved more for that would be an impossibility. It wasn't the money issue , it was the honesty and trust and loyalty that she showed me and the maturity that she possessed that I had never seen in a woman before.

Times has changed a little, I have got her to stop buying 9 peso lipstick and buying Revlon which  looks twice as good last all day without reapplying  ever hour like the other kind, once in awhile I will buy her a purse I know she has been eyeballing but keeps looking at the price tag, so I just buy it for her anyway.

And then like Mr. Lee and so many others have said more eloquently than I, it is the small things, the whisper in the ear of, "do you really know how much I love you", the playful spank on the butt when no one is looking, the shimmer and shininess of her long black hair as I brush it for her, her rubbing my head every night before i slept. There is nothing to compare the love of a good Filipino wife with, there is just for me at least no fair comparisons out there.

This is a land of over 84 million smiling faces, you too, take your time chose wisely, just like every country we have our scam artist , try to stay away from the chat rooms and all the other mail order bride routines, instead come here for a short visit , meet some people , go to church let them introduce you to someone and let nature take its course.

God's speed and Good luck to you my friend.

Murf

[Gray Wolf]

The most direct proof I have that my asawa Gloria loves me is the fact that she's still here.      As some of you have learned ( the hard way  ) I'm not the easiest guy to get along with at times  But through all of my silly, hardheaded actions she manages to forge ahead.  It can't be easy living with a grizzly bear.     I snore at night, take up more than my share of the bed and sometimes talk in my sleep.  But every morning when I wake up she has a special way of saying "Mahal Kita" that just melts this grumpy old bear.

I was married before for 18 years, and I've had my fair share of women, but none can come close to comparing to my darling Glo.  She's sweet in the typical Filipina way, an excellent housekeeper (in spite of me) the best cook I've ever known (including my Mom and Grandma) and knows how to treat this man in such a way as to make me feel like nothing I've ever felt before.  She's also the sexiest woman I've ever known (including the dancers/ex-dancers I dated).  But besides all that she's also my best friend, my strongest ally and a force to be reckoned with if you cross her.    

What proof do I have that she loves me?  Let me ask her...

Hmmm...  Well...  She's too busy to mess with me.  It's time for TV Patrol World News.   
I'm sure that somewhere deep inside she wanted to give you all her dalawang centavos worth, but it'll have to wait.  The Empress has her priorities.      What a woman!